Your softness, your femininity is THE thing that attracts grownup, fabulous men like bees to freaking honey. And, more importantly, it makes you feel like a whole person. This holding back has become a device we use to protect us from all the evils those bad men can bestow on us. Maybe you think that once you trust him or once he scales the wall you put up to protect yourself, then you will gladly be more feminine and let him have that yummy, sexy, sweet part of your gorgeous self.
Guest Post. Although masculine chic has become very trendy in the last few years and boyfriend jeans have become as popular as skirts and dresses, there is still something amazing about being feminine and girly. Most women have a feminine side to them, it just may not be as expressed. More so than choosing feminine pieces, it is important to choose fabrics and patterns that fit that style. You can be feminine in pants if there is something else that gives the girly vibe. So, probably the first thing you can think about is silk, and you are not wrong. It is a fabric that will gently hug your curves, and show and accentuate just enough.
Unfortunately, over the last years we started hiding our feminine side. We took on a lot of masculine positions and traits, trying to liberate ourselves from a traditional role of a passive housewife. After all, the essence of feminine is freedom.
In the modern Western world, we have mistaken feminine as referring to the external appearance of a woman. Yes, this is important for achieving femininity and being more feminine, but this is all worth nothing if a woman is empty on the inside. Femininity is created from the inside out, and for a woman to be more feminine, she must prioritize and work on what goes on internally. Some of the most feminine women in the world have no money for clothing, shoes, the latest LV bag, the latest chanel sunglasses…. Rules are useful when they are useful.